A long time ago in a previous incarnation the Buddha was a monk with very, very long hair that he tied into a large knot on the top of his head, so he was known as the “Topknot Guru.” As a wandering monk he would stay in the city and, at times, alone in the forest for solitary cultivation.
One time this topknot guru went into the forest, found a suitable place to sit in meditation, tied his long hair into a top knot and sat down for deep meditation. Once he sat down he would not get up or move at all for three days. This time, however, while he was in meditation, a bird that was far away from its nest was ready to lay its egg any moment. In desperation, it found that the soft, furry crown of the topknot monk’s head an ideal place and laid its egg there.
Three days later when the top knot monk came out of meditation he felt that there was bird nesting in his topknot! The monk quickly realized that if he disturbed the nesting bird she would probably be so frightened and fly off and not return to care for her young hatchling.
There was only one thing for the top knot monk to do－remain unmoving. He didn’t move for one, two, three days, weeks, and eventually for three months until the hatchling, under its mothers care, could fly on its own. Then, finally, the topknot monk rose from his seat and continued on his way.
What gives the monk the motivation to stay unmoved for three months, overcoming all his physical needs with his single-minded concentration, was his wish to protect the young hatchling. With the compassion to care for those who are in need, we will be able to let go of the satisfaction of our ego as our highest priority in life, and be on our way to Buddhahood.